Losing a fight isn't so much about not getting what you want or not being proven "right" — but about the damage you do to a relationship.All couples fight. Conflict is normal, and often healthy, in relationships. Let’s be honest, though: Everyone likes to win. And when you’re arguing about something important, losing feels especially hard. But here’s the truth: Losing a fight with your partner isn’t about not getting your way. It’s when the relationship takes a back seat to the issue at hand. It’s when you stop seeing yourself as a team and start putting your own ego first. You see your partner not as a collaborator, but as a competitor, and that, according to Cheryl Groskopf, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is when you really lose a fight. “Most coup