Sara-Louise Ackrill and Bontle Senne, co-authors of The ND Lovers Club, on why dating while neurodivergent is an absolute minefield until we take a new approach.Part of why we wanted to write ‘The ND Lovers Club’ was the realisation that there was literally NOTHING out there representing our experiences as neurodivergent women trying to navigate love and lust without losing our minds. Years of spectacular failure (trust us) has taught us that our brains process dating in ways that make neurotypical advice about as useful as a broken umbrella in a storm.