Kids' birthday partyGrowing up, birthday parties were a big deal; our table would creak under cheese and pineapple sticks and cold pizza (which I still consider elite). That’s partly because the special day was always a double bill in our home. I’m one of two sets of twins, and personally, I liked that not all of the attention was on me alone. But Redditor u/Inside_Bunch_2890 is struggling with a slightly different problem. Posting to r/AITAH (Am I The Asshole Here), the mother asked: “AITAH for not letting my husband relight my daughter’s birthday candles for my three-year-old to blow out?” So, we asked experts whether it’s ever a good idea to let children who weren’t born on the same day “share” birthdays.