Instead of simply telling a child they're "mature," remark on a specific action or behavior.Most of us have made a comment at one time or another without thinking much about its impact ― especially when it comes to kids.Case in point: It’s fairly common for adults to tell well-behaved children they’re “mature for their age.” And while the phrase itself isn’t harmful, the message can sometimes carry a deeper and more complicated meaning, according to therapists.“I think it is generally intended as a compliment,” said